Tuesday, 10 July 2018

Where have I been?

I'm sorry for just disappearing on you guys! Still alive here! My life has been one crazy train after another. But let's just jump right in to it.

Me and my boyfriend of 7 years broke up a few months ago. I'm not going to get in to why's, but I guess we just kinda grew apart.

I had not really even gotten over it, and a new guy jumps in to my life.

For a while I tried to find a new apartment for myself. I decided that I didn't want to quit my job and leave Uusikaupunki. In the end, I somewhat like this place and job.

This city is on a super fast grow right now because of the big factory that's hiring thousands of people at once. And because of that there is NO apartments. Well yeah, there is, if you want to pay the same rent you would be paying in Tampere center or even Helsinki. So I had no luck with finding an apartment.

So this new guy and I started dating and he thinks I should move right in with him. I thought it's not such a good idea to do it so soon.

Long story short, I ended up moving to his place. That's where I'm now.

What about me and my ex's cats? Well we decided we would each take one because we had our favorites and they weren't really that good friends in the end.

My new boyfriend had a cat called Ronja though, she didn't get along with my cat so I had to let my ex keep my cat for the time being.  Ronja ended up being very dear to me in the 3 months I got to live with her. But she was a old lady, about 18 years old. She ended up becoming really ill and not eating at all so we took her to the vet. Turns out there was something wrong with her liver and my boyfriend had to choose between putting her down and starting a extensive treatment that would probably just give her a few more months at best. So we did what we had to do, though it left us both heartbroken. 

At least I'll get my cat here now, though we decided that we will take him after summer break because we are planning on doing all sorts of stuff. Travelling around Finland and such, and I don't want him to be alone for too long. So lots of travel posts coming soon.

Because all of this crazy stuff happening I cancelled the WGT trip. For a while I though I would have to be buying all this expensive stuff  like a washing machine, bed, car etc. So it turns out I didn't have to do that, but all of this has been too exhausting for me to be also planning a trip to Germany. So I decided to not go this year either.

Still going to Lumous this week as planned. I have my tickets now and hotel paid and my boyfriend will join me! Hope to see some of you there!

On to the more trivial things! My boyfriend build me a gaming computer! It run's pretty much anything and of course I wanted it to have all the leds and RGB you can possibly have. With water cooling of course. If someone is interested I will add all the info on the parts here. It's still missing parts and is a bit unfinished but it's in use at the moment.

Processor: Intel Broadwell-E i7-6850K, LGA2011-v3, 3.6 GHz
Graphics card: Asus GeForce GTX 1080 Ti STRIX OC
Ram: 6x G.Skill 8GB Trident Z RGB, DDR4 3200MHz  (Going to add 2x more, that woul make a total of 64GB of Ram)
Motherboard: Asus ROG STRIX X99 GAMING
Power Supply: Seasonic 1000W FOCUS+ 1000 Gold
Hard Drive: Seagate 1TB BarraCuda ( Going to need to add more )
SSD: Kingston 240GB SSDNow UV400
Case: Thermaltake Core X71 Tempered Glass Edition
With windows 10 unfortunately
+ A whole bunch of water cooling stuff


I also have a yard now! So my boyfriend build me a flowerbed. I put a lot of neat stuff there but I'll show it to you later on. Hope everyone is having a nice summer. I'll try to get back in to blogging slowly. :)


  1. wihii, kiva lukea postaus pitkästä aikaa ja harmi, että et päässyt osallistumaan wgt:n tänäkään vuonna, ehkä ensi vuonna sitten ;)

    1. Tosiaan, aina on seuraava vuosi, ainakin toivottavasti. :D Jospa tätä tästä saisi taas vähän vauhtiin tätä bloggailuakin!

  2. Kiva lukea sinun kuulumisia pitkästä aikaa! (: Melkoinen pakkaus tuo uusi kone, näyttääkin myös tosi hyvältä! Mihin muuten tarvitset noin hurjasti RAMia? : D

    1. Nooo jos totta puhutaan sitä saattaapi olla vähän enemmän mitä tarvitsisi. Mutta noh eipähän tule ikänä loppumaan kesken. :'DD Osittain myös sen takia että onhan tuo g.skillin RGB't pirun nätit rivissä...

  3. I'm sorry your life has been so stressful! I really hope all these changes lead to good things and happiness for you. I love your creative layered outfits and bold makeup, but if blogging doesn't make you happy, don't do it! Much love.

    1. Well that's life I suppose :) Thanks, it's nice to hear that! I do love blogging but sometimes you just need a little break when things aren't going too well.

  4. Oonkin miettinyt mitä sulle mahtaa kuulua! Oli itselläkin aikamoinen kevät, niin ei tullut kirjoiteltua. Kiva kuulla että asiat ovat pikkuhiljaa lähteneet rullaamaan. Toivottavasti törmättäisiin Lumouksessa tällä kertaa! :)

  5. Mukavaa lukea postaus pitkästä aikaa :) Muakin hirvitti aikanaan olosuhteiden pakosta ottaa tuo miekkonen olosuhteiden pakosta asumaan mun luo hyvin nopeasti, mutta hyvin tässä on onneksi menny viimeiset 3 vuotta :D asuntojen hinnat on kyllä ihan naurettavia...

    1. Joo eipä siinä loppujen lopuksi mitään menetä, ainoastaan positiivinen kokemus ollut tähän mennessä hyvä että sinullakin. :)

  6. Keep on working, great job!